tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6562281218287648674.post7790963618277837196..comments2024-03-06T14:38:23.226-08:00Comments on And then she recovered.......: 'Tears dry on their own'Ruby Tuesdayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15078080281794429051noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6562281218287648674.post-32431074732770879272012-07-27T02:11:23.479-07:002012-07-27T02:11:23.479-07:00Well I hope you have a wonderful time while away, ...Well I hope you have a wonderful time while away, I do understand how difficult being surrounded by people you only know thanks to genetics can be. I also get the small talk thing- I agree thinking about questions to ask a person does keep the conversation going. When all else fails talk about the Olympics everyone seems to interested in that.josie13https://www.blogger.com/profile/03988386743210558148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6562281218287648674.post-18284310502552835852012-07-23T07:37:21.880-07:002012-07-23T07:37:21.880-07:00Thank you Loulou for your kind words
I'm real...Thank you Loulou for your kind words<br /><br />I'm really going to make an effort and just through myself in to it.<br />It's scary but I'm sure it'll be worth it<br /><br />Love you xRuby Tuesdayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15078080281794429051noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6562281218287648674.post-39471903157892818292012-07-23T07:34:58.170-07:002012-07-23T07:34:58.170-07:00Thank you sweetie xThank you sweetie xRuby Tuesdayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15078080281794429051noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6562281218287648674.post-70327218566315549432012-07-23T07:34:30.691-07:002012-07-23T07:34:30.691-07:00Thank you,
I do actually like finding out about p...Thank you,<br /><br />I do actually like finding out about people and what makes them tick. I'm sure I'm worrying needlessly.<br />Here's hoping xRuby Tuesdayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15078080281794429051noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6562281218287648674.post-76647862117375377852012-07-23T07:32:24.460-07:002012-07-23T07:32:24.460-07:00Thanks Peri
That's a great idea to ask questi...Thanks Peri<br /><br />That's a great idea to ask questions. I'l definitely use that trick and yes I can always do my own thing if things get too much.<br /><br />Love you too sweetie xRuby Tuesdayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15078080281794429051noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6562281218287648674.post-3738581820762538052012-07-23T07:04:16.343-07:002012-07-23T07:04:16.343-07:00Ruby, to me you have always been Ruby, kind Ruby, ...Ruby, to me you have always been Ruby, kind Ruby, talented, caring and beautiful Ruby - but never "just" Ruby. ED and addiction are illnesses, and would we define people by their heartdesease etc? nope. so have the most wonderful holiday, enjoy the family, the sun, yourself. you deserve it!<br />Love, <br />L.Loulouhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08038435727531749819noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6562281218287648674.post-22692020606764276682012-07-23T07:00:25.134-07:002012-07-23T07:00:25.134-07:00I hope the anxiety lessens when your actually on y...I hope the anxiety lessens when your actually on your way to Italy. I had bad anxiety about going to school so far away, but I adjusted. I hope you enjoy yourself dear.PrettyLieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14074616303471229792noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6562281218287648674.post-51727231232063866502012-07-23T06:27:43.994-07:002012-07-23T06:27:43.994-07:00As much as dislike hours of small talk and bullshi...As much as dislike hours of small talk and bullshitting my way through social gatherings, at times it can be amusing to see how much you can glean from others from a relatively short period of time. Making a game out of situations you prefer not to be in usually helps in making them more bearable. Who knows, perhaps you might actually have a conversation worth continuing and end up making friends.<br /><br />The chance to relax and the extra sunlight will be good for you.feihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08471804820756213391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6562281218287648674.post-60261794135626282462012-07-23T05:59:54.477-07:002012-07-23T05:59:54.477-07:00Amy had an amazing voice, but watching her is too ...Amy had an amazing voice, but watching her is too painful. I miss her music and voice so much, I had been looking forward to a lifetime of hearing her sound mature, and it was taken from her and all of us by crippling insecurity. I wish addiction and ED had a physical personification so I could get a bit of methodical, medieval revenge on them, a la the Spanish inquisition.<br /><br />Weight means SFA if you don't tackle the problem in the head. It's why early inpatient programs had such a large rate of failure. That focused on re-feeding and weight restoration to the exclusion of all else.<br /><br />If the people get too much you're perfectly entitled to go for a walk by yourself or pretend to nap while listening to some music. Jet lag and all that nonsense. This shit should not be allowed to steal this wonderful occasion from you! Go make some good memories and have fun doing it. That's an order!<br /><br />What I've picked up from Mig's success books is that if you have nothing to talk to people about, ask them questions about themselves/their lives/whatever they're blathering on about and pretend to be interested and keep asking little questions to keep them going. People eat that up and love you for it ;)<br /><br />Love you so much. Take care of yourself on holiday and do something for fun every day <3Peridot (G+P)https://www.blogger.com/profile/07055351645100012755noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6562281218287648674.post-14944899727784775842012-07-23T05:19:32.352-07:002012-07-23T05:19:32.352-07:00Thank you Rayya
I'm probably over thinking th...Thank you Rayya<br /><br />I'm probably over thinking the whole thing.<br />I will be with family so I'll have support<br /><br />I'll miss you<br /><br />Love ya xRuby Tuesdayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15078080281794429051noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6562281218287648674.post-2326744820335668252012-07-23T05:17:32.528-07:002012-07-23T05:17:32.528-07:00I love you too sweet P
You mean so very much to me...I love you too sweet P<br />You mean so very much to me too<br /><br />I will try to put my fears aside and who knows, maybe I'll even enjoy myself<br />I can't remember the last time I had a good belly laugh<br /><br />Take care of you,<br /><br />I'll be in touch soon xRuby Tuesdayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15078080281794429051noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6562281218287648674.post-78887546050619980942012-07-23T04:46:31.829-07:002012-07-23T04:46:31.829-07:00Oh Ruby.. I am sorry that you feel apprehensive bu...Oh Ruby.. I am sorry that you feel apprehensive but hey maybe you will feel better once you are there.. small talk doesnt always have to be about such things.. I do hope you have a lovely time and that you can fully enjoy travelling like you used to.. <3<br />I hope Amy rests in peace too.. it was a shock but an expected shock. I thought it was a waste too and that was one of my favourite songs too although I havent listened to it since she passed.<br /><br />Much Love xRayyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17119187530625796632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6562281218287648674.post-36251732780980410132012-07-23T04:43:29.812-07:002012-07-23T04:43:29.812-07:00I love you Ruby
I miss Amy too, I found out the mo...I love you Ruby<br />I miss Amy too, I found out the morning, I was in Camden, near where she used to live and where she would have partied. Banksy spray painted her onto the side of Camden Starbucks alongside melted candles. everyone was silent in a very normally hustle-and-bustling place. <br /><br />I also understand the not being well despite weight gain.<br /><br />Cheryl (nice CPN on maternity leave who I miss) was the only person to see me break down. She asked to weigh me for the multidisciplinary meeting. I started to cry. I said, you can't , I'm fat. Then I broke. I broke and everytime after I saw her I broke into hysterics and cried. she said, this is what the eating disorder does. it doesn't just eat at you, it eats at your mind.<br /><br />i really hope the whole situation isn't horrifically overwhelming, and i hope the tedious chit chat doesn't drive you to insanity.<br /><br />you mean a lot to me, please try to hold on, and even maybe have some fun. you are allowed some fun too.<br /><br />love you miss ruby xxxPersephone Paixhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07636384401701974785noreply@blogger.com