I saw Mary in the morning
Went to a lunch time meeting
And in the evening
My mother and I went to a free dance class that was on in the local theatre
I was wrecked tired yesterday
But I really wanted to go to the dancing
As its something that I really enjoy
There were two dance classes on back to back
First was Salsa
And then there was Ceili dancing
Which is traditional Irish dancing
The class started at 8pm
We arrived on time
Filled in a form
And took a seat in the room
There was salsa music playing
And there was quite a few people there
Just then
The teacher came over to speak to us
She spoke in Irish
I can speak a little Irish
But my Mum is fluent
The teacher explained that they were speaking Irish as it was Irish speaking week
So the class was to be in Irish!
More and more people filed in
I'd say there was about 30 of us
And soon the class began
The teacher was great
She explained things well
And had a lovely way about her
First
We did a wArm up
Which was great fun
Then on to the dancing proper
We learned the basic steps
Then in partners
One leading
One following
We practised our best Salsa
We changed partners every few minutes
So we got to dance with a lot of different people
I really enjoyed it
And my Mum was laughing her head off
So I think it's fair to say that she enjoyed it too
In no time at all
The class was over
The teacher left on the music so we could continue to practise
She was going around the room dancing with different people
Then she came to me
'You're a natural' she said
'So light on your feet'
I told her that I used to dance a lot
I asked her if she was a school teacher
As I got that vibe off her
But she told me that she was a pharmacist
I thought about how I had been a pharmacist of a kind in another life
I thought it was just a bit ironic
She asked me what I do
I told her that I was starting work in May
And that I also write
'Are you a journalist?'she asked
I said I wasn't
And explained that I blog and such
She asked what I write about
I was kind of caught on the hop
And before I knew it
I was telling her that I am recovering from an eating disorder
And my blog was about the journey to recovery
I'm still not entirely sure why I decided to share that information
I kind of felt like I said too much
Given that it was supposed to be an evening of fun
But
I tend not to hide my conditions
And I think it's good to be open about things
Especially mental health issues
She seemed really interested in this
And asked me for my blog address
Which I gave her
Will she read it or not?
I don't know
But she was really kind
That's why I thought she was a teacher
Because she was gentle
Patient
And made everyone feel really comfortable
The Salsa finished up
And it was Ceili time
To say it was organised chaos is probably accurate
There were so many of us
And the Ceili is a fast dance
So there was much laughing and joking
And it was all great fun
Half way through
It was getting late
So my mum and I decided to call it a night
I hope they will do more classes
As we thoroughly enjoyed it
It was great to get out for an evening
And meet new people
Not sit catatonic in front of the TV all night
Of course you know they I love dancing
I also found out that there is Zumba on every Tuesday night
So I might just venture out to that too
Mum preferred the Irish dancing
But I definitely preferred the Salsa
If given another chance at life
I would never have given up dancing when I did
I don't believe in having regrets
But dancing is something that I am sorry I didn't pursue
We arrived home about 10 30pm
These days that is a late night for me
I'm usually in my pyjamas by 7pm
I was starting to ruminate about what I told the teacher
And the verbal diarrhoea that seems to pour out of me at random times
I guess I talk and write about my eating disorder so much
That I forget to maybe hold back a little in some situations
But the teacher last night gave me a positive response
And seemed genuinely interested in my blog
But it does beg the question
And I am throwing the floor over to you
Do you speak openly about your eating disorder or mental illness?
If not why not?
If yes, why yes?
What sort of a response do you get when you talk about it?
Have you ever had a negative reaction in response?
Inquiring minds want to know....