But the girl I went to last time is away
And won't be back until mid January
There are a couple of others near by
But they don't come highly recommended
And they don't use titanium
So I think my best bet is to hold on for the person I know to come back
Annoying
But necessary
Especially given that I have absolutely no patience
And want everything yesterday
I was texting a girlfriend from school yesterday
She has had a myriad of piercings in her time
Including all over her ears and face
Both nipples
And down below!
I was asking her where she gets them done
She said she had some done in Dublin
But a few of them she did herself
I was blown away by this
But she said she really enjoyed doing them
Of course my next questions was how todo it
She sent a brief text that involved a sterilised needle, ice, gloves and a clean towel
I was fascinated
So when we finished texting
I decided to do a little research on line
And of course
There are many many home videos on YouTube
Showing how to pierce various pars of your body
As well
As detailed explanations on Google
I read through a few
And I actually did consider it
Yes
I am one of those slightly crazy people who thinks piercing yourself from the comfort of your own home is a good idea
So I consulted my sister
Who is always the voice of reason
She told me in no uncertain terms
That I would be absolutely mental to do that
And I let her talk me out of it
Part of me was relieved
As I can imagine that it hurts like a mother....
But
I guess it gives me time to think about what to get done next
As I'm not really sure at the moment
I'm trying to decide between my lip
My septum
Or Medusa
As you know
I live my life on the verge of impulse
And often make silly decisions based on that
So I will be a responsible adult
And think my decisions through
Albeit being forced in to it....
Less than two weeks until Chritsmas kids!
All my cards have been posted
The house is decorated
The Christmas cake is maturing
And we feed it with sherry every week
The turkey is ordered
The shopping will soon be done
And all I have to get is my Christmas gift for my sister
I am looking forward to a quiet family Christmas
No fuss
No stress
Just good old fashioned fun
Sans alcohol of course
But I was wondering about you?
Do you celebrate Christmas?
How?
Who will you celebrate with?
Do you have any Christmas traditions?
Maybe you don't like the holidays
How do you get through?
Answers on a postcard please.....
By the way
I didn't reply to comments yesterday as I didn't read them after the first one
Which was accusing me of driving illegally
I'm done done replying to these comments
And even though it's not an anonymous comment
It might as well be
When I crashed my car
That was years ago
It's in the past
Yes, I made some stupid mistakes when I was using
But the clue is in the fact that I was using
I wasn't in the right frame of mind
Do I regret my actions from back then?
Yes
Can I change them?
No
So I do my best to learn the lesson and move on
That's all I can do
i said something nice, to you, underneath your recent post, actually...
ReplyDeletedid i say something wrong during the last weeks? i just noticed that you haven't been replying to my comments anymore...
anyway, i am not sure if my messy live leads me here before the holidays, so have a merry christmas, Ruby. I'll try to stay away from the coke and MDMA (or worse) and from partying too hard and being put back into that sanatorium-thing in Switzerland by my parents, and i hope you hang on to your recovery as well.
much love
xxx
Hi Josefine,
DeleteI am so sorry that I haven't replied to your comments recently
It wasn't a deliberate thing
It's just sometimes I am afraid to look at my comments
As I am afraid of nasty ones
No you haven't done anything at all
It's all me
I'm just a bit all over the place at the moment
And thank you for your kind words on my last post
It means a lot
I hope you see this reply
Do let me know if you do
Just so I know we are ok
I hope you have a safe and peaceful Christmas
I'll try to stay sane if you will
Pinkie promise?
Take care of you x
Omgosh Rubs I can't believe you considered piercing yourself!!!!!!! You crazy chick!!!!! I'm a massive lover of piercings and have been desperate to get my tragus done for months but I would never dream of doing it myself. Gosh you're one brave gal! <3
ReplyDeleteI celebrate Christmas, like you, quietly. Just me and mum. I go to church in the morning because I believe that Christ is at the centre of CHRISTmas and it is so special. Then just spend the day at home with mum, maybe go for a walk. I'm the opposite of you with alcohol though. I very very rarely drink, Christmas being one of the only times I will allow myself some mulled wine or a glass of bubbly. It's interesting how we're all so different, I love that.
I hope your card arrives with you soon, so exciting! XXX
That's me all over Annie
DeleteBonkers to the bitter end!!
He he
Your Christmas sounds lovely
And I wish you and your mum a very happy and peaceful one
And enjoy your glass of bubbly
It's nice to have a little treat
Hope you are feeling better Hun?
Always here for you x
Boo! It's definitely worth the wait to get the piercer you prefer. I'm surprised there are places that don't use titanium. My shop sells surgical steel and silver and gold pieces, but it's always titanium for the first piercing. I'm the same though, extremely inpatient when it comes to piercings! Please don't try it at home though! I'm shocked at your friends advice. I did my own cartilage piercing when I was like 10 - never again! I can't imagine doing a facial piercing... You need more than just ice and a sewing needle. Appropriate clamps and hollow needles, for starters!
ReplyDeleteI'm ignoring Christmas this year. There is just too much stress. Christmas hasn't been the same since we lost my Pa. We'd visit him every Saturday at 10am (he wouldn't answer the door even 5 minutes earlier, very much a creature of habit), and Christmas was the one time of year he'd come visit. It just really hit me this year how much I miss him.
<3
xx
I'm glad you commented Bella
DeleteAs I was just thinking of you today
And was going to email you
As I was a bit worried
I'm sorry this time of year is tough for you
I know Christmas isn't easy for a lot of people
I hope you manage to get through it
And I do t blame you if you want to ignore it
It's an awful lot of fuss for just one day
Don't worry
I won't be piercing myself any time soon
I will hold on for my piercer to come back
Take care x
please don't diy! i did it loads when i was young only ears though. never a good idea some people get away with it with good luck not worth risk.
ReplyDeletelike christmas but it is tiring, huge family, no money everyone coming here my oven breaking and don't have chairs!! been going round asking today.
hubby works whole week every year so doesn't get involved so i struggle, also am an alcoholic with eating disorder so yes a challenge. hope everyone here can forget the struggle for a day xxx
Is that you Jo?
DeleteNo don't worry
I won't do it myself
I was tempted
But after thinking about it
It would be really silly
Hope you're doing ok? X
i love the run up to christmas, the lights and carols even like the getting dark early but find the actual day quite stressful, don't like the clutter and chaos and trying to happy all long day, go outside to take smile breaks!but always sad when its over ( once I've tidied up, ha) jo xxx
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